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Open Question: Why would a romantic not want to be intimate? (married people only plz)?

There is two married couples I know. Couple A: They have kids. The woman is the biggest romantic sap out there loves movies, books, loved it when she was dating etc. But wants nothing to do with her husband physically. Why? Sidenote they have issues, they fight all the time. Couple B: The woman wants it but the husband turns her down!. She is gorgeous and tries coming on to him with lingerie and he doesn't care. He's not gay. They have no kids yet. What are your thoughts on these two couples? What is considered an average sex life? (I dont' use normal because I don't think there is a normal) What can they do to help their marriages? Serious answers only from those with marriage experience please. Let me answer to a few of your comments with some additional details. These people are all very close to me, I know the details. Couple A. The man is extremely sex driven and never satisfied (had a porn addiction in the past). The woman is on the opposite end of the spectrum. She wants sex and romance but for some reason doesn't with her husband (It's not like she wants anybody outside the home either) That is one of the main things they fight about, as well as everything else because they're on thin ice all the time. She should be out of postpartum by now. (2 years is youngest) Couple B. THe man is definately not gay and there is no infidelity in either relationships. They are not going to get divorced they get along as well as a married couple would for the most part. Unlike couple A who has considered divorce.

Voting Question: Why has my boyfriend lost his drive for me and want oral sex only?

My partner and I have been together for almost 2 years now, and ever since we started having problems the sex has dwindled. We have our good days and bad days, yet he only seems to want blow jobs. I know he is self conscious about his weight (he put on about 10 kg when i got pregnant, I put on 14 and lost 18 kg) but he don't seem to care too much because he doesn't do anything about it. I've tried various ways to get him in the mood: Dressing up in lingerie and high heals, lighting candles, talking dirty, naughty texts, kissing his neck and touching him...but you'd be surprised to hear most times he will just say "Im not interested tonight.", or "I dint feel like it, or "not tonight babe, sorry". Other times he will say to me "I'll come to bed later, I just want to look at this first" (this meaning: look at cars and boats on the net), or "take off your undies and jump in bed" but he usually comes to bed hours later and we never end up having sex. Or I end up waking up during the night and find him asleep on the couch. The times when he seems to aroused, he just wants blow jobs. Before this he would either do "69" or just bj. I don't mind oral sex, but I prefer more intimate sex. I've asked him many times why he wants bj and not sex, he tells me that "he doesn't feel like it, he just wants a bj" I give in and just do it (he tells me how wonderful I am at it), but afterwards I just feel used. We don't have steamy passionate kissing sessions because he thinks I'll get the wrong idea (think we hare about to have sex). He barely kisses me at all, usually just goodbye and hello (which isn't a great kiss either because he reeks or smoke and i don't like it. He used to chew gum or come in and brush his teeth then kiss me properly, now that has even gone. Every now and again he"ll give me a proper kiss and I think that he wants me again, but it still doesn't happen...romance, sex..:( He's told me that he has lost his drive for me and doesn't know how to get it back, and doesn't try. Now Ive told him, that Im not giving him any more BJ till we start having sex again. He understands, but lets see if he gets frustrated now. Im not doing this to punish him, I do enjoy oral sex, but im sick of being unsatisfied and I want the passion and romance back.

Resolved Question: My boyfriend was a little turned off because I purchased intimates with his mother ?

I am starting to get really close with my boyfriend's mom. I got lingerie while shopping with her last month and surprised my boyfriend with it. When I told him that I got it when I went out shopping with his mom and that she even gave me advice on what lingerie to choose and all, he giggled saying that he was not too comfortable with it. He told me that I could get everything with his mom, but not intimates. It is not like I was discussing positions I was going to do with her son or something that extreme. Or is he that shy with his mother? We live together so his mother knows for sure that we are having sex. It was just something innocent and I think it was a very good girl's bonding time. I really am having a relationship that I never had with my mother so I just want to take full advantage of it. I also very much respect his opinion. What do you think?

Resolved Question: wanna wear something sexy for boyfriend on new years night *wink.advice?

Im 28, and want to wear something sexy for my new years eve night with my man of 5 months. I'm gonna look at victorias secret for cute underwear, but wondering what style i should try, i have a really fit body type, and have never bought lingerie. Thoughts, any advice please? We haven't been intimate in 5 weeks cause of our busy schedules, so i wanna do something special.

Resolved Question: Me vs. my boyfriend's dogs!?

My boyfriend loves his 3 dogs, he had a very rough childhood and has never had a good relationship with his family so he considers them to be the only family he has, he even refers to them as "his kids". He even said that the main reason he works is for them to have a place to live, they're his motivation in life. I have absolutely no problem with that.The problem is that they're very spoiled, absolutely no manners. They don't let you eat (he feeds them food straight from his plate, so they're used to that and they're constantly begging for food while you're eating, and if you're not careful, they even take it directly from your plate!). He insists that the 3 of them sleep with us, so imagine 2 adults + 3 dogs in the same bed, they move a lot, walk on you, hair everywhere and is uncomfortable, can't sleep more that a few hours so when I have to go to work the next day I'm very tired. We can't even have some nice bed sheets because they're allowed to be on the bed and they tear and scratch them, I even brought once some nice sheets and in 2 days they had holes everywhere, and instead of correcting them he laughs at them. Even while we're being intimate, if you're not careful and I leave some lingerie on the floor, believe me I lost it! He can never stay over at my place or even come to visit for more than a few hours because he can't leave them alone, we can't go anywhere for the weekend because of the same reason. I have a dog myself that I love very much, I've had dogs my whole life. But this is a little out of control, and even if I love my boyfriend a lot this is affecting the relationship. He has a very strong personality, and since he loves his dogs more than anything I don't even know how to talk to him about this because I don't want to start a fight or seem selfish. What can I do? @ Island Canine: I have a lab

Voting Question: Gender Studies - Why do women get upset when their husband/man buys them?

sexy, frilly, naughty lingerie and/or intimates? I have heard that some women get upset with this as they think all he thinks about is sex. I would be thrilled to have my man give me that stuff to wear for him.

Resolved Question: How to make a night special for my man?

Here's the deal. I'm 21 and my fiance is 3 years older than me. When I was 15 I decided to save myself (virginity) for marriage after my boyfriend at the time tried to rape me. I met my fiance when I was 16 and we've been together ever since. He's not a virgin, and he told me that before he met me, he never thought he'd wait 5 years for a girl. We've been very intimate before, just haven't gone all the way. So yeah, we have an amazing connection. It was hard, yeah, but worth it. My fiance is the kind of guy who could have easily gotten another girl, so I know he must have really cared about me to stick around all these years that I've basically s*x starved him. lol, He's 6'5" and does a lot of physical activity, MMA, boxing, gym, running, etc. That's actually how we met, through MMA. We're both very athletic. I want to make our "honey moon" night very special. He deserves it. Somebody on yahoo was telling me that it'll be bad if we don't have a connection, or if I'm scared of s*x, but I'm not. We have an amazing connection, and I am looking forward to an amazing s*x life with my fiance after we're married. I'm open to do a lot of things. Oral (both ways) is something I'm more than willing to try. Anal is the only thing I'm really against, that and multiple partners. I don't like that. My fiance has had more than one partner before we met (yes, he's clean. I had him checked when we were first dating haha), so I'm worried he'll be more experience than me. I don't want to make it awkward. Basically what I'm asking is how to make the initial honey moon night amazing for him, and how to make the rest of our honey moon "bed" time exciting. I'm very mature about s*xual topics, I always have been for some reason. The farthest we've gone together is me giving him hand j*bs and he has f*ngered me once. I'm not afraid of the pain of the p*netration. I'm pretty good at taking pain & my fiance has always been strong & gentle with me. But are there any precautions we should take since his p*nis is on the big side? (I know this cause I was talking to my "loose" friend and I told her and she almost spit her coffee out and called me a lucky b*tch) I was thinking about lingerie. Do guys prefer black or red? Lace or silk? Long or short? My friend told me I should wear heels (cause I'm short: 5'0", barley 5'1") but I am not wearing heels on my first night. The same friend told me to wear tight and short lingerie cause I have the body for it. I'm white/native/asian/latina so I have curves, but because I'm an athlete, I'm not fat. I have nice legs (I thank my mom for those), and an hourglass figure with a big (not kim K big, but it's big.) latina booty. My butt is my favorite physical feature! My boobs are average... nothing special, but I don't mind. Basically, I'm pretty sure I have the body to work tight lingerie, but would that be a good idea? I can't control the setting, he took all control over the honey moon planning. (Thankfully!) Besides that, what should I do? Makeup? No makeup? I would really prefer not to wear makeup, i don't wear it too often (only when I go out) and he doesn't seem to mind. Perfume? Lotion? Would the lotion make my skin taste bad? Any other advice? (girls and guys welcome to comment haha) Basically: Guys, what would be the most amazing thing for your girl to do on your honey moon night, especially after 5 years of no s*x? (she's a virgin) Girls, what do you think I should do? Thanks Loves !! :D I know it's long!! I'm sorry, I'm just excited and I have a lot of questions !! It's hard to ask my friends (since most of them are guys) and my few female friends are either less experienced than me (or have horrible relationships) and my best friend is a little... out there on these subjects haha. Thank you so much if you read it all ! :)

Resolved Question: Guys: Would you like to receive this as a gift?

Intimate photos of your girlfriend/fiance/wife as a christmas gift? Photos would be of her in lingerie, partial nude, your fav. t-shirt etc. They would be very tasteful, not trashy. Opinions please. I felt I should clarify, the photos would be done by professional photographers. There are a few studios in the city.

Voting Question: what do men like there women to dress up in when there going to get intimate?

i want to spice up my relationship by buying lingerie or dressing up as a nurse or something!! any ideas or thoughts?

Resolved Question: What do I do if I have no desire to have sex with my husband?

For the past few years, I've had no desire to have sex. This is starting to become a big problem in my marriage. I love my husband and do want the relationship to work, but I just have no desire for sex. I have been having sex for him, but after a candid talk this weekend he picked up his things and walked out. I got him to stay but, the problem still exists. I've never been a touchy/feely intimate person, and he has. However, if we're not in a place where we can have sex, the touching is annoying to me. Don't get me wrong, he does turn me on...and I enjoy sex with him. However, I don't think about sex until we are about to have sex. Imagine not ever being hungry unless there's a plate of hot food in front of you! That's how I feel about sex. I have to leave myself notes to remember to buy lingerie or come onto him. Otherwise, I just go about my day. My husband feels that I'm giving him a "Pity Screw", and that's not the case. I've tried to explain how I feel to him, and it hurts his feelings.